A little Catholic-hater maybe?
Is Dick Kortokrax Catholic? I honestly do not know. I'm amused that defending a basketball coach against ageism/baseless attacks could ever merit such accusations. Seems to me the Christian in all of us would want to defend what is right and just. To each their own...
Just a quick note to clarify the Fr. Mark / CYO reference. Religion was not the point. Father Mark supports all the kids in Kalida.
Maroon...I'm not sure how your contribution to this discussion relates to Dick Kortokrax and some of the shameless attacks that have been made against him on this thread...? But I'll address the topics that interest you the best I can. I'm not certain you and I are even talking to each other...or are interested in this thread for the same reasons.
First off...Father Mark. You will have to forgive me, but I don't know who that is. I'm sure he is a great man, and it sounds as if he has done a lot for your community. God bless him and his supporters. That said...this is a high school basketball forum with a primary focus on NW Ohio basketball. As such, it tends to attract participants who are interested in high school basketball. That is the audience I write for. In that audience, Dick Kortokrax is a rather large figure, to say the least. It is not meant as a blasphemous dig at Father Mark when I say that Dick Kortokrax represents Kalida. For me, and other basketball junkies, Dick Kortokrax is a gold standard. It is a compliment for a man, a program, and a community that I would have given a lung to participate in. I find it rather confusing that such accolades could "offend" you...? From my perspective as a long time small-school basketball fan...Kalida is the Mecca.
You will have to excuse me if I'm out of line here. But on a basketball message board, it seems rather odd that a compliment toward a great basketball coach is met with such religious fervor. I could understand if I were on your church forum talking basketball. But that is not what has happened here.
Anyhow...all across this state there are basketball fans that know about Kalida. Dick Kortokrax is a primary factor that this is so.
And I meant what I said "Having fun should be the point.
I understand and respect those that feel this way...but I disagree. I feel that kids have plenty of opportunities for "having fun." In fact I opine that "fun" opportunities overwhelm "productive" opportunities. I think a well balance child needs a little of both. We have amusement parks, video games, movies, intramural athletics, CYO, etc... These are all wonderful opportunities that tend to emphasize "fun." Any parent who feels the way you do has plenty of choices and opportunities to choose along with their child.
But what about those parents and children who prefer competition and believe in the values/lessons of hard work? Those of us who believe that performing under high pressure/stress conditions is trainable...and good for the child...? Notice I am not asking anybody to agree with me/us. I'm just hinting at what could possibly be wrong for those who see the world differently than the "it should always be fun" camp to have opportunities that reflect our values?
Competitive high school sports is one of the best means for teaching a young mind to focus and perform under pressure. I believe that we ought to allow this one traditional teaching tool in place for those kids and parents who want this pressure. Kids who thrive off competition are kids too. Kalida is very lucky to have had Dick Kortokrax around all these years to teach this segment of their population how to thrive and succeed in high stress environments. After all, the world needs all types of people. If we do not train some to handle high stress situations, we will fail as a society.
I will say it again. I'm not asking you or others to agree with my opinion. I just think that different types of activities should be available for all of us to choose. Thank God they are. Sounds like Kalida and surrounding communities already have thriving CYO programs. And while my limited experience with CYO sports has not fulfilled my expectations of what sports should be...I respect that there are those who prefer and endorse this approach. It would not be good taste for me to force my opinions and expectations on the CYO community of how/why they could/should do it MY WAY because MY WAY is better. To each their own...they say.
In that very same line of reasoning, I question those who join
competitive high school sports and then complain that it is "no fun" and "too serious." Look...not every activity in life is meant to please every person. If you don't like Dick Kortokrax and his methods...don't play. I opine that it demonstrates a bit of a pompous attitude to suggest and/or expect Dick Kortokrax should change his very successful techniques for teaching competitive high school basketball because you have a different opinion about what high school sports should be. I could understand being upset and vocal if Dick Kortokrax and traditional competitive high school athletics were the only opportunities for kids to participate...but this is simply not the case. Intramural, CYO, and private clubs provide plenty of opportunities for children to participate at differing philosophies/stress levels.
It is a great country in which the kids and their parents have the freedom to participate in so many different activities with such a diversity of approaches. Why would anybody ever want to limit those choices so that only "their way" was the acceptable training method?
Edited by Dman, 12 January 2012 - 01:00 AM.